• People We Love In Africa

    March 4th, 2013

    After a butt-numbing 36-hour travel day (which, technically makes it “days”) we are home from our African adventure. If you want to read about our romantic, intrepid, grabbing-life-by-the-cajones safari with lots of photos you can start HERE.

    We certainly miss living among the beasts of the natural world, swimming in pools filled with river water, the fattening, extravagant buffets, the shops selling indigenous arts and crafts and dresses (I love dresses because they don’t have buttons). But I think what we miss most are the people we love in Africa.

    In particular, these people:

    Gorgeous shot kids at Henna

    These are the children of Henna pre-school in the small village of Huntington right next to Lion Sands Private Game Reserve where we stayed on the final leg of our safari.

    Clare meets kids 2

    Clare fell in love with these little people. Don’t tell her I said this, but she’s a Child Whisperer. There’s going to be some big bucks in babysitting for this one.

    Bridget shakes hands

    Bridget shaking hands. She’s my baby. I couldn’t believe how big she was amongst these pre-schoolers.

    Henna Ambassador

    One of Henna’s ambassadors.

    Kids say hello 1

    I loved their faces. Curious, gleeful, proud.

    The purpose of our visit to Henna Pre-School was to give back to the indigenous Lion Sands community who took such good care of us during our stay there.

    And as a mom it was also an opportunity for me to show my daughters how other families and children live, so my kids can understand that not everyone has the same privileges they do (I will try not to pull that one out every time they beg for some new form of technology).

    But I also wanted to show my kids that the world is a much bigger place than just their elementary school and circle of friends.  That they are citizens of that world who can contribute meaningfully simply by being kind and putting themselves in another person’s shoes or by volunteering or donating should they choose to do so.

    Thembi, with fellow blogger Jamie Grumet, is one of those rare individuals who takes advantage of her success to bring it back to her community.

    Thembi is one of those rare individuals who took advantage of her personal success and gave it back to her community.

    A lovely, resourceful woman named Thembi Mdluli was our host at Henna. Thembi is the Community Development Manager at Lion Sands who was born and raised in Huntington.

    She has almost single-handedly built this school by securing donations from companies like Nokia, Toyota Australia, Lion World and, believe it or not, The Bachelor during the Brad Womack season (the kids probably needed Narcissism inoculations after that).

    In contrast to the local village the pre-school is very much of the Developed World. It is one of the only facilities in the community to have its own water source (a well that was dug and donated by Nokia). It offers two nutritious meals to the children a day. It has a state-of-the-art-shade structure and jungle gym. It has its own garden planted by the children and wonderful classrooms.

    Bridget in Class room 3

    Clare and Bridget in class 3

    This may have reminded my girls that they had a lot of homework to do back at the lodge.

    Clare in one of the classrooms

    Based on the poverty we saw in the greater Huntington village we were blown away by how clean, organized and modern Henna pre-school was. My daughters thought it was better than their former pre-school back in L.A.

    The only big difference I found between these children and my own were their names shown in the photo below. You will notice there is a Relate, a Unaty (Unity?) and an Urgent.  Other names we saw on the wall were Bliss, Polite and Avoid. I’m not sure how Avoid will allow his name to influence his life. Perhaps he will simply be avoiding lions and not his girlfriend who wants to get married.

    Kids Names 3

    I think one of the most difficult things about poverty is that most of us want to look away from it. I speak for myself when I say sometimes I feel like the problem is so big that I have no idea where to begin to help.

    Visiting Henna showed me that the only place I can start is one child at a time. One community at a time. One charity at a time. Visiting Henna and shaking hands with each one of these fierce, proud, joyous individuals reminded me that these aren’t the faces of poverty. They are the faces of Urgent, Polite and Bliss. Each child will have experiences and live a life just like my children will. Just like I will.

    So I’m starting with Henna pre-school today and if you are searching for a good place to start I hope you’ll consider doing the same.

    Jamie at Henna

    Jamie Grumet of I Am Not The Babysitter at Henna Pre-school, glamorous as always.

    Saying goodbye.

    Saying goodbye.

    ALL THE INFORMATION YOU NEED TO HELP:

    Legal Status

    The Bhubezi Community Projects is a registered independent trust and is sanctioned by the South African Revenue Service as a Public Benefit Organization in terms of section 30 of the Income Tax Act, P.B.O. Ref. No. 18/11/13/765. The registration number is 2001/008367/08

    The Trust continues to undertake and become involved in exciting projects focusing on education in a holistic sense; and working in conjunction with the community is both rewarding and worthwhile. We believe that the Bhubezi Trust, by working with the community and establishing relationships with government and donors, facilitates the community’s plans for a better future by helping to turn dreams into realities.

    Get involved (any amount contributed to a specific need will help):

    HOW?

    Sponsor a child for a year’s tuition.

    US$ 175

    Sponsor a teacher for further tuition

    US$ 500

    Monthly food aid

    US$1500

    Lamination of Floor at New Beginnings day care, feeding chairs and cot beds

    US$9000

    Outdoor toys

    US$2000

    Jungle gyms

    US$8 000

    Building of toilets at New Beginnings

    US$9000

    Landscaping and tree planting

    US$10 000

    Huntington Home Based Care vehicle

    US$12 000

    Building of a kitchen at New Beginnings

    US$18 000

    General donations

    General donations include stationery, used or new clothes, cutlery or crockery, office stationery and equipments, used soccer kit including soccer balls, toys, e.t.c these are always welcome

    For further information please contact:

    Thembi Mdluli (Community Development Manager for both Lion Sands and Tinga)

    Email: community@lionsands.com

    Tel: +27 13 735 5000

    Fax: +27 13 735 5330

    Postal Address:  FEDEX Shipping address:

    Bhubezi Community Projects   Bhubezi Community Projects

    Thembi Mdluli Thembi Mdluli

    PO BOX 8090 Nr. 15, 3rd Avenue

    Whiteriver Parktown North, Johannesburg

    1240 2193

    The banking details are as follows:

    Name of bank: First National Bank of South Africa

    Branch: Whiteriver

    Address: 37 Chief Mgiyeni Drive, Whiteriver, 1240

    Type of account: Current account

    Account number: 62049047956

    Code: 270552

    Swift: FIRNZAJJ

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    Our trip was organized through Destinations South Africa and all lodgings were through More Hotels.

     

     

     

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