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6 Surefire Ways to Keep Your Kids Happy on Vacation (we’re in Paris) While Enjoying It Yourself

Welcome to my Traveling With Kids In Paris series:

This year our vacation has been to Paris over the kids’ winter break. Here are my 6 tried-and-true ways to keep your kids happy on vacation while still being able to enjoy it yourself.

1. Let your kids sleep whenever they want.

We’ve been in Paris nine days and are still going to bed around midnight and getting up around 10 a.m.

This has actually worked beautifully for us as Paris is a vibrant nighttime city. We can hit museums and shops from noon til six or seven p.m., then have a late dinner and time to walk the City of Lights into late evening.

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The girls and I sleeping on the RER train from Charles de Gaulle airport to the city. Let Them Sleep pour l’amour de Dieu!

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The Champs Elysees and Arc De Triomphe at night. The best time to be there!

2. Feed your kids whenever they want.

A child fed is a child willing to stand for hours in the Louvre without complaining.

You may even need to feed them again to combat boredom in the midst of the Grande Gallerie or withstand freezing climates while sightseeing from un bateau on the river Seine or jettison weeping and gnashing of teeth whilst appreciating the massive, vertical trajectory of the Eiffel Tower despite frigid climes.

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Bridget at Eiffel Tower Before Food…

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Bridget at Eiffel Tower with Food!

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Me enjoying Eiffel Tower with no one kvetching at me!

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My girls with their gelato, shaped like flowers, during a mommy shopping spree on the Rue Mouffetard at night.

3. Encourage your kids to journal about their trip and take their own photographs.

My kids are 9 and 11, but even if they’d been a few years younger I would’ve given them my iphone to take photos, because in doing this the trip becomes THEIR TRIP, not the trip their parents are forcing them to take.

They became invested in the environment and the experience. Here are some of the gorgeous photos my daughters took:

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My mother and I having lunch at the world famous Laduree on the Champs-Elysées, photo taken by Clare.

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Clare’s photo of Napolean
III’s dining room in The Louvre.

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Bridget, who is already fascinated by sketching, was captivated by the nudes in The Louvre.

Shannon Bradley Colleary, traveling with kids in Paris, Mona Lisa

Clare’s selfie with a particular lady at The Louvre.

Shannon Bradley Colleary, traveling with kids in Paris, Le Metro

Bridget documenting the entity which is my naturally dried hair on the Metro at Rue Monge. My hair speaks French and was frequently able to translate for us.

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Clare’s panoramic vista of Paris from the roof of the Institut du Monde Arabe.

4. Let your kids have their own money and buy whatever they want.

We gave our daughters a certain amount of Euros for their own purses that they were responsible for. They became very frugal all of a sudden when they knew it was their money they were spending.

Shannon Bradley Colleary, traveling with kids in Paris

The girls fell in love with the most expensive art store to have ever existed. But spent their own money on Derwent pencils and other high end art supplies. I couldn’t begrudge them this as they instantly fell to sketching Paris.

Shannon Bradley Colleary, traveling with kids in Paris, Le Gallerie LaFayette

Don’t get me wrong, they also spent their own money at Le Gallerie Lafayette on Barbies they could’ve gotten in the States for a lot less money. But those purchases made them so happy they were willing to light any number of candles in Notre Dame.

5. Let them do stuff kids like to do in any country.

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We took them ice skating at Le Village de Noël des Champs-Elysées.

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They rode the carousel with me in the rain just outside of the Hotel Ville.

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We rode the Roue de Paris ferris wheel at the Place de la Concorde at night.

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… and were thrilled to see the Eiffel Tower light up from such heights.

6. Interspersed with all your kids’ eating, sleeping, spending and having fun, make them do a few things they aren’t that interested in doing.

Because even if they don’t appreciate it now, these experiences will open the world to them and stimulate interests they may not be aware they have.

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They must attend long, Parisian, many-coursed dinners with friends. This is me with my glamourous friend Andre Demir, world renowned for his intrepid Tango and the fine Art of Appreciating Women.

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Our girls learned to climb tall sightseeing edifices to see the city from every spectacular angle.

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We all tried new cuisine. Here I am with a buttery, garlicky bite of escargot.

Thanks to my parents I now, at the youthful age of 48, finally appreciate art:

Although I had some explaining to do about posing for Jean Auguste Dominique's "The Grande Odalisque" in a previous life circa 1814. I am hoping my girls will be the artist rather than the model.

I had some explaining to do about posing nude for Jean Auguste Dominique Ingres’s “The Grande Odalisque” in a previous life (circa 1814). I’m hoping my girls will be the artists rather than the muses like their mother. Sigh.

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15 comments

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  1. Rosie Carrillo
    Rosie Carrillo 8 January, 2014, 08:39

    Love it, love it! Thank you so much for allowing us to see Paris over your shoulders. 🙂

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  2. KymberlyFunFit
    KymberlyFunFit 8 January, 2014, 10:26

    I think I also saw one of your muse photos from the other prior life in the late 1800s. At least the hair looked familiar.

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  3. Carol Diver
    Carol Diver 8 January, 2014, 15:08

    Thanks for sharing your wonderful trip. Your girls are so lucky. It brought back so many wonderful memories that Harry and I shared in Paris. We loved the city so much.

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  4. pamela munger
    pamela munger 8 January, 2014, 15:22

    what fun pictures— you captured Paris beautifully.

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  5. Melissa Henn
    Melissa Henn 9 January, 2014, 06:36

    I think bringing your mom was a great idea. We did not, therefore Paris was much less romantic. Great pics! (also I tried to speak my lapsed French and was treated poorly. How about your experience?)

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  6. jill johnson
    jill johnson 9 January, 2014, 08:02

    Great pics and so glad you have the opportunity to share this awesome experience with the girls. They grow up so fast…

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  7. Angie
    Angie 9 January, 2014, 12:07

    All looks absolutely amazing, but for some odd reason I’m most struck by the hair au naturel. You should do this more often, let it be free! Also am loving Bridget’s chapeau – tres chic!

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  8. Sharona Zee
    Sharona Zee 9 January, 2014, 20:11

    you’re hair looks fantastic!

    I love Paris…everything looks good in that light!

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  9. Shannon
    Shannon Author 10 January, 2014, 18:21

    The light there is beautiful, but I’ve got to thank all the new filters on my iPhone too.

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  10. Mabel MacGillycuddy
    Mabel MacGillycuddy 11 January, 2014, 13:46

    Wonderful post. Great ideas for kids!

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  11. Ceecee
    Ceecee 13 January, 2014, 16:48

    Oh thank you for that! I feel like I just went on vacation. Merci! Especially love the photos of Bridget sans and avec food at the Eiffel Tower. Blood sugar is a real thing, people!

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  12. Rosie Carrillo
    Rosie Carrillo 13 January, 2014, 17:38

    Thank you so much for the glimpses of Paris…..LOVED it! 🙂

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  13. Doug
    Doug 13 January, 2014, 17:55

    Love all of the photographs. It was actually refreshing to see some that were not very good. I loved the ones of your family. Sleeping on the train, classic. Bridget at Eiffel Tower, priceless, as is the one with food. Great before and after. I thought gelato was Italian :). You and your mom are gorgeous, you are still known as beautiful as far as I am concerned (hope I am not being too forward). The comments could go on, but loved the blog.

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    • Shannon
      Shannon Author 13 January, 2014, 21:18

      Dearest Doug. You may absolutely be forward. Women of a certain age rely on the kindness of strangers. So glad you enjoyed this post. xo

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